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August 3, 2009

it’s official…

Angie and I are officially Divorced today.  She arrived late, of course, because she said she overslept.  That made for a frantic start, but she got there eventually and things went pretty smooth from there.  We caught up on each others life and even had lunch.  It’s bitter-sweet, Divorce, and it’s not much fun to have to go through it either.  But, that’s all behind us now and we can move on with our lives.  A fresh start so to speak.

I think that every person that is about to get married should take a Divorce class to give them some hard facts and reality checks about marriage.  It’s not easy and it’s SOOOO much more than just a “DAY”  It’s your entire life that your committing to and it’s NOT EASY!!

I don’t regret our marriage, it’s just unfortunate that it ended up the way it did….

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November 4, 2008

October 31st

We had our “Fall Festival” at Foundry last Friday night.  It was a lot of fun.  I decided to dress up this year, which I haven’t done in a LONG time.  It was fun to dress up too.  I was a Pirate, “Arrrr Matey”  I bought the make-up and did a big black beard(which looked cool) then I tore/cut up some perfectly good jeans as well as a nice white shirt.  It was sooo worth it.  I then went to church and helped out with the ‘Buried Treasure’ booth we supported this year.  I made some kids laugh and some cry(although I still don’t know why) and even had people I have known for years, that couldn’t tell it was me.  That made it all worth it, as I knew then I had made up a good costume!  There was also a patch over my left eye that I wore all night and that looked cool too, along with my plastic sword in my belt.  Too fun.  We then went to a couple local friend’s homes to celebrate the fun evening afterwards.

I’m not usually one to do much on Oct.31st, but this year I did and glad we did too.  Angie had a PIMP outfit on with the hat and cane and BIG Dollar symbol chain around the neck.  It looked great.  The siberian lion striped black and white pants and matching shirt looked great as well.

Too Fun!

October 16, 2008

breast cancer awareness month

I want to keep the awareness out there, that October is “Breast Cancer Awareness” month.  There was the Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure that just happened a couple weeks ago.  Great read story about Susan G. Komen.  Also, another great site for Breast Cancer Awareness is “Pink for October” 

The reason I am bringing this to light, is that my wife, Angie Jean, was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2005.  Thank God she has survived it, through chemotherapy, and multiple surgeries over a 2 year period.  Today she is healthy, with a full head of hair(that is getting long too) and is very positive about the outlook of our future.  She donated her hair to the “locks of love” foundation prior to the chemotherapy treatments.   This year has been a real good year for both of us as we have traveled the globe, to London, Paris and Italy.  We are both grateful that this is behind us, but never forgetting those who are still being diagnosed with cancer daily and those who live with it daily as well.

Let’s pray that there is a Cure in our horizon.

November 15, 2007

cancer

Angie is my Wonderful Wifey.  We’ve been married for almost 9 years now.  Like any couple we have our ups and downs, but the last couple of years have been very hard.  See, she/we(I say WE because we’re both in this together) got Breast Cancer and was diagnosed with it in November of 2005 at the ripe old age of 29!!!!

I wanted to blog about this and not so much about our marriage, so I’ll continue, but wanted you to know the mindset of what this is more about, Cancer Awareness and our dealing with this disease.

So, obviously this hit us like a ROCK!  She came down stairs one evening and asked me to feel something on her breast and I did.  It didn’t feel too good and was hard, like a pebble was lodged in her breast or something.  real weird feeling.  We immediately went to see her gynecologist the next day and found ourselves having a Ultrasound done within an hour of arriving at her gynecologist office.  It didn’t look good.  The following week she had a biopsy taken and then they told us that we wouldn’t hear anything for 2 weeks!!  I don’t know about you, but when someone tells you that you have to wait 2 weeks for life changing news, it feels like a lifetime.

Unfortunately, the oncologist told us that we should come in and talk with her.  We did that evening and heard the bad news that I would never wish upon my worst enemy….you have cancer.  She(the oncologist) went into the dynamics of the type of breast cancer she has and how it works and reacts, the size of it currently and the steps we need to take in order to battle it.  You know your speaking to an Oncologist when they use words like Battle and Attack.  It’s almost as if they had gone to boot camp in the army prior to completing their P.H.D.

Anyway, we began chemotherapy in January of 2006.  Angie got her concoction of medicine(s) to take on a monthly basis.  One of the medicines was called the “Red Devil”  This bad boy is what caused the hair to fall out, including making you bald.  So, before it fell out, we cut her beautiful long curly hair and donated it to the ‘Locks of Love’ foundation.  It was a big celebration and we made the most out of it.   

In order for Angie to receive the ‘concoction’, she had to get a Port-a-Cath in her upper chest, which required surgery.  not fun.  So, we had that surgery done, but the Dr. that performed the surgery didn’t do a good job and gave her a Port-a-Cath for a woman that was 300+ lbs and not one under 150.  So, a few weeks later, we went in for another surgery to get the ‘right’ one put in.  Isn’t that wonderful!

The chemo lasted until late May of 2006.  During that time, we purchased some very cute wigs for Angie, a blond wig and a cool brown with highlights one.  They both looked cute on her.  Soon after, we had to decide on the next surgery step.  Single or Bi-lateral Mastectomy.  We decided to go with the Bi-lateral one because it was the safer step, we thought that would prevent this damned disease from ever coming back Lord willing.  I believe in July of 2006 we had that major surgery done at MD Anderson, one of the best cancer centers in the world.  We are grateful to have such a great group of Doctors that practice their profession here in Houston.

Angie healed and recovered and stayed strong, where as I was in a sort of fog it seems at times.  She was going through it, but so was I and I felt every moment of it. 

We began the reconstruction phase in April of 2007 with another surgery.  This time it was expander’s that were put in to prepare for the ‘real ones’ to come.  We felt this was a better step towards recovery and putting all of this behind us.  In October of 2007 she got the ‘real ones’ put in to replace the expander’s and I love’em!!

Here we are now and recovering well.   She starts back to work tomorrow and I’m very thankful that things have turned out as well as can be expected.  We have had many people pray for us and share their life experiences with their family members and friends that have gone through similar situations as us and were thankful for that as well. 

Please help out with sharing wisdom with others about prevention and donating to research organizations such as the Susan G. Komen Foundation.